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Imi traduceti si mie asta in engleza, va rog. dau coroana.
In opinia mea dacă cineva ti-a facut rau si  tu te razbuni, faci la randul tau un rau, atat tie, cat si celui care te-a ranit pe tine. Asta ar putea avea drept urmare dorinta celuilalt de a se razbuna si de a-ti face un nou rau. Rezulta o adevarata reactie in lant, un cerc vicios de rea vointa din care nu poti iesi decat atunci cand iti vei schimba perspectiva si vei dovedi maturitatea necesara pentru a-l rupe, renuntand la rautati infantile.
 În primul rand a-ti lua revansa pentru fiecare greseala facuta de altii nu e tocmai un scop nobil in viata. E mult mai util sa incerci sa-ti vezi de viata ta si sa fii fericit, decat sa-ti alimentezi singur ura si dorinta de razbunare! Nu-i mai placut sa faci ce-ti place decat sa obtii o satisfactie indoielnica facand rau altcuiva? Razbunarea nu e decat o cale spre distrugere si autodistrugere, pe care e mult mai indicat s-o eviti.
In al doilea rand dorinta de razbunare, pe langa sentimentele negative puternice de care e nevoie pentru a o sustine, mai cere si o cantitate considerabila de energie. Fie ca e vorba de o razbunare spontana sau de una elaborata, iti cere efort si iti ia mintea de la alte lucruri. E mult mai constructiv sa folosesti toata aceasta energie facand ceva mai practic, ceva care sa-ti faca bine tie si nu orgoliului tau, si asta doar temporar.
In concluzie fie incerci sa influentezi intr-un mod pozitiv persoana in cauza, prin discutii sau reactii mature si intelegatoare, fie te retragi si ignori neplacerea, asigurandu-te doar ca data viitoare vei fi tu insati mai atenta sa nu ti se mai intample, invatand cu maturitate lectia imprejurarii respective.

Answer 1

In my opinion if someone has harmed you and you take revenge, do harm in return, both you, and the one who has hurt you. That could lead to the other's desire for revenge and to make your new worst. It follows a real chain reaction, a vicious circle of ill will which can not go out only when you change your perspective and you will prove the maturity needed to break it, giving up mischief pornography. First you repay us for every mistake made by others is not just a noble purpose in life. It's more useful to try to see your your life and be happy, than to fill up your own hatred and desire for revenge! There's more enjoyable to do what you love than to get satisfaction doing bad questionable else? Revenge is only a path to destruction and self-destruction, which is more indicated they avoid it.Secondly desire for revenge, besides strong negative feelings that is needed to support it, requiring a considerable amount of energy. Whether it's a spontaneous revenge or elaborate one, it takes effort and it takes your mind off other things. It is more constructive to use all this energy doing something practical, something to make you better yourself and not your ego, and that only temporarily.In conclusion be trying to influence in a positive person in question through discussions or reactions mature and understanding, or withdraw and ignore displeasure, making sure only the next time you'll be yourself closer will not change happen again, learning the lesson mature respective circumstance.